Proverbs 25:7-9

⁷For it is better to have it said to you, Come up here; than for you to be put down in a lower place before the ruler.

⁸Do not be quick to go to law about what you have seen, for what will you do in the end, when your neighbour has put you to shame?

⁹Have a talk with your neighbour himself about your cause, but do not give away the secret of another: