Proverbs 25:8-13

⁸don't rush to take legal action, for what are you going to do in the end when your neighbor shows you're wrong and humiliates you?

⁹Discuss the case with your neighbor himself, and don't betray someone else's secret,

¹⁰otherwise whoever hears it will make you ashamed and you'll never lose your bad reputation.

¹¹Advice given at the right time is like golden apples set in silver.

¹²Constructive criticism from the wise to someone who listens is like a gold ring and a necklace of fine gold.

¹³Faithful messengers are as refreshing to their master as cold snow on a hot harvest day.